曾经有一段时间去一个地方做田野调查,吃住都在人家家里,和他们相处得也很融洽,唯一让我不自在的地方就是禁忌很多。晾晒的衣服不能正对着大门,女孩子不能在正房里梳头,洗好的碗碟不能摞起来,当然更不能打碎……这让生活比较粗躁神经比较大条的我无时无刻谨小慎微,唯恐一不留神就冒犯了人家。后来,我发现关于打碎东西的禁忌,在很多文化里都有,无论欧美,还是亚 There was a period of time to go to a place to do field surveys, eating and drinking are at home, and get along with them very harmonious, the only place where I am uncomfortable is a lot of taboo. Clothes drying can not be facing the door, the girl can not be combed in the main room, wash dishes can not be stacked up, of course, but can not break ... ... This makes life more rough nerves relatively large strips I cautious all the time, that fear Inattentive offended others. Later, I found that the taboo on breaking things is found in many cultures, whether in Europe or the United States, or in Asia