前不久,上海市浦东地区开展的《母亲素质大调查》中,集中反映出孩子心目中“现代母亲”的样板是:懂一点电脑,化一点淡妆,少一点说教,多给点空间,有气质,爱学习,像个朋友一样。同时在一项中小学生的调查中也显示了绝大多数孩子不满意父母的教育方式,有的孩子甚至认为父母素质低。这些均反映出当今许多母亲的育人素质令 Not long ago, the survey of “mother quality” carried out in the Pudong area in Shanghai focused on reflecting the “modern mother” model in children’s minds: to know a little computer, to make up a little makeup, to say less, to give more space and to have temperament Love learning, like a friend. At the same time in a primary and secondary school students survey also showed that most children are not satisfied with their parents’ education, and some children even think that parents of low quality. All of these reflect the quality of education of many mothers today