当前,有的基层干部骨干在与战士谈心时,习惯于固定的地点、方式、内容,更有甚者为了应付上级检查谈心记录的要求,直接让战士上报自己近期思想动态和问题。这种口径统一、方法粗放、毫无针对性的“漫灌”式谈心,既无法掌握战士思想状况。更谈不上增进官兵感情,还会使战士产生抵触情绪。谈心是做人的思想工作,必须因人而异,有的放矢,像“滴灌”一样,渗入到“根部”。谈心看似是“谈”的过程,实则功夫在“谈”之前。因此,基层干部骨干在谈心时必须做好上篇 At present, some key cadres at the grassroots level are accustomed to fixed places, ways and contents when talking to soldiers. What is more, in order to meet the requirements of higher-level inspection and cordial recording, they directly report their recent ideological trends and problems. This unified caliber, extensive method, no specific “Man-irrigation ” talk, neither can not grasp the soldiers thought. Much less to improve the feelings of officers and men, but also make the soldiers have resistance. Talk about the heart is a man’s ideological work, must be different, targeted, like “drip ”, infiltrated “roots ”. Talk about the heart seems to be “talk ” process, but in fact Kung Fu “talk ” before. Therefore, the key cadres at grass-roots level in the heart must be done on the first chapter