有调查资料显示,中国有近一半的孩子跟随爷爷奶奶、外公外婆长大。由于知识结构、行为习惯存在诸多差异,祖辈家长和年轻父母在育儿理念,以及教育方式、方法等方面难免产生各种分歧,甚而引发这样那样的矛盾和纷争。其实,教育下一代,不论缘于上下两代的代沟,还是缘于价值观背后的文化冲突,家长们需要的是将不同的方式融合为适温的爱的体量,努力探求爱的表达如何与孩 According to the survey data, nearly half of China’s children follow grandparents and grandparents. Due to the differences in knowledge structure and behavior habit, parents and young parents of ancestors inevitably have various disagreements on the concept of parenting, education methods and methods, and even lead to such contradictions and disputes. In fact, educating the next generation, regardless of the generation gap arising from the next two generations, or due to the cultural conflicts behind values, parents need to integrate different approaches into the body of warm-tempered love and strive to explore how the expression of love relates to child