小时候走亲戚，长辈们总不让我空着手回去。一包花生，几个鸡蛋，或者一个红包……现在看来都是些不值钱的小东西，但在一二十年前的偏远山村，却也是金贵的。因为爸爸妈妈总教我不要随便接受人家的东西，所以我总是躲躲闪闪不肯要。但长辈们常常不由分说，拉住你往兜里塞；再? When I was young, relatives and elders never let me go back blank. A pack of peanuts, a few eggs, or a red envelope ... now appears to be worthless little things, but in a remote village a decade or two ago, it was also precious. Because dad and mom always taught me not to accept other people’s things, so I always dodge refuse to want. However, elders are often unspoken points, pull you into the pocket plug; and then?