人应该变得聪明,而要想聪明就要懂得放弃烦恼和忧伤,凭借一份开朗的心态去面对新的生活。我们无须沉湎于对过去的回忆中,对于过去的忧伤应该懂得忘记。懂得遗忘,并且坚持遗忘,是一个人能够获得成功的关键。比如失恋会给人带来痛苦,矛盾能够留下仇恨,分歧能够带来争吵,名利带来了很多的贪求,甚至成功也给人带来了很多压力……但是这所有的一切都是已经过去了的事情,我们没有必要牵挂这些事情,我们 People should be smart, and to be smart you must know how to give up trouble and sadness, with a cheerful attitude to face a new life. We need not indulge in memories of the past, we should know how to forget the sadness of the past. Understanding forgetting and insisting on forgetting is the key to one’s success. Such as romance will bring pain, contradictions can leave hatred, disagreement can bring arguments, fame and fortune has brought a lot of greed, and even success has brought a lot of pressure ... but all this is past We do not need to worry about these things