前一段时间,有一个朋友向我抱怨她老公,说她老公每天不是坐在电脑前,就是在电视机边,也不说话,几乎忘记她的存在。她总觉得老公有事瞒着她,问他发生什么事了,他要么说没事,要么就发火。她很苦恼,对他的怀疑也更深了。她总想把问题问明白,帮他解决,结果只是无休止的口水大战。我说这样不行,换一种方式与他沟通,她开始给他写信,还是无效。最近,我从一本书中找到了答案,这个男人是走进了自己的洞穴。 Some time ago, a friend complained to me about her husband, saying that her husband was not sitting in front of a computer every day, just beside the TV, not speaking, and almost forgetting her existence. She always felt her husband something to hide from her, asked him what happened, he either said nothing, or angry. She was distressed and doubted him even more. She always wanted to understand the problem and help him solve the result is endless wars. I said no, in a different way to communicate with him, she began to write to him, or invalid. Recently, I found the answer in a book about a man who entered his own cave.