在日常生活中,我们不难发现这样的情况:一个孩子被他的父母或周围其它人说成是“聪明”的,孩子也就认为自己是聪明的。若孩子被说成是“老实”的,孩子日后也就处处表现老实。如果孩子被说成是“笨蛋”,他以后也就常常抱怨自己的脑子不灵。在实际生活中,几乎每一个孩子都有一个与之对应的标签。当一个人从小就被标定为“愚蠢的、没用的”,我们对其智力要求就降低了,对他的期望也就降低了,有时 In everyday life, we find it easy to find a situation where a child is said to be “smart” by his parents or others around him and the child considers himself smart. If the child is said to be “honest”, the child will behave honestly in the future. If a child is said to be a “stupid”, he often complains about his own brain afterwards. In real life, almost every child has a corresponding label. When an individual is labeled as “stupid, useless,” we lower our intellectual requirements and expect less from him, sometimes