作为一个教育工作者,我去美国前对美国人不打不骂、却能教育好孩子很好奇。而到了美国才了解到,在美国,体罚或用言语羞辱孩子,都会造成孩子身体或心理上的伤害,当事的父母为此还要受到法律惩罚。那么美国人如何教育自己的孩子呢?美国人认为自己的孩子将来要成材,不仅仅指学业上的成就,更应该包括遵纪守法、诚实诚信、礼貌修养、团队精神和身心健康等等。所以,家长们从小教育孩子就和我们国家不一样。举一个很典型的例子:美国的小孩有一天突然对父母说:自己以后想当清理垃圾的工人。如果是中国孩子说这话会被父母斥责没出息。但美国 As an educator, before I went to the United States, I was not curious about Americans, but I was curious to educate good children. When the United States learned that corporal punishment or verbal humiliation in the United States would result in physical or psychological harm to the child, parents of the matter would still be punished by law. How do Americans educate their children? Americans think that their children will succeed in the future, not only academic achievements, but also law and order, honesty, courtesy, teamwork and physical and mental health. Therefore, parents educate their children since childhood and our country is not the same. Give a very typical example: one day in the United States, a child suddenly told his parents that he would later want to clean up the trash workers. If it is Chinese children say this, they will be reprimanded by their parents. But the United States