人的一生中,大约有一半以上时间是在家中度过的。夫妻又是家庭中的主体。因此,如何调节夫妻之间的关系,是每个人都要面对的一个重要课题。在日常生活中,我们常常可以看到,夫妻间常为一些小事吵吵闹闹、磕磕绊绊;有时互相猜疑,有时好心被误解;有的大打出手,毁财伤身;有的则夫妻反目,对簿公堂……产生夫妻不和有种种原因,但其中最重要的,往往是夫妻双方不识性。心理学告诉我们,由于男女性别不同,从而导致生活习性和行为方式不同,这是客观存在的差异。不了解这些差异,就会以己之心度对方,误认为对方不理解、不体贴自己,或感觉彼此无共同语音,不是知音等等。因此,要搞好夫妻关系,首先就要识性。 About half the time in a man’s life is spent at home. The couple is the main body in the family. Therefore, how to adjust the relationship between husband and wife is an important issue everyone should face. In daily life, we often can see that the husband and wife are often noisy for some trivial, stumbling; sometimes suspicious of each other, and sometimes well-intentionedly misunderstood; some fight, ruining financial injury; ... There are a variety of reasons for the disagreement between husband and wife, but the most important of these is often the ill-informed couple. Psychology tells us that because of the difference in gender between men and women, which leads to different habits and behaviors, this is an objective difference. If you do not understand these differences, you will mistakenly regard each other as your own partner, failing to understand each other, not being considerate of yourself, or having no common voice, not knowing your voice, and so on. Therefore, to do a good relationship between husband and wife, we must first of all knowledge.