作为一个现实中人,谁都可能会与诽谤、嫉妒、误解、指责等行为有过或多或少、不同程度的接触。然而就接触者而言,却出现了三种表现与结果:一种是怒目而视、耿耿于怀、以牙还牙,结果两败俱伤;再一种是置之不理、视若无睹,仿佛耳边一阵轻风吹过,使矛盾趋于 As a real person, there may be more or less different degrees of contact with such activities as defamation, jealousy, misunderstanding and accusation. However, in terms of contacts, there have been three manifestations and results: one is grumpy, grudging, tooth decay, and the result is lose-lose; the other is to ignore it and turn a blind eye to it. in