经常可以听到少年的父母有这样的抱怨:“我那孩子本来挺听话的,怎么突然变得横竖不吃了呢?”的确,这一年龄时期的孩子变得“不听话”了。男孩子表现得暴躁、容易激动,女孩子也常常跟妈妈发生矛盾,变得爱顶嘴了。面对孩子的这种突然变化,父母往往不知如何是好。过去行之有效的教育方法,今天不顶用了,惩罚也无济于事。有的还因为家长教育方法上的简单粗暴造成孩子出走或酿成不可收拾的后果。这 Often, young parents can hear such complaints: “My kid, who used to be so obtrusive, suddenly did not eat anymore.” Indeed, children of this age have become “obnoxious.” It’s Boys behaved irritable, easy to excite, girls often conflict with the mother, become loving mouth. Faced with this sudden change in children, parents often do not know how to be good. The effective methods of education that used to be effective today are not useful and punishment will not help. Some also because of the parents of simple and crude education methods cause children to leave or lead to out of control the consequences. This