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你认识这样一对夫妻吗?他们看起来很不般配,但他们的婚姻却十分幸福。人们选择爱人的真正原因是什么?什么神秘力量使我们投入到一个人的怀抱,又是什么神秘的力量使我们离开旁人眼中与我们各方面都般配的另一个人呢?约翰·霍普金斯大学临床心理学教授约翰·马尼认为,每个人心中都有一幅“爱情地图”——我们大脑中一组表现我们好恶的信息编码。它不但表明了我们喜欢的头发和眼睛的颜色、声音、气味和体型,还记录了吸引我们的那种性格,无论是热情友好型,还是坚强沉
Do you know such a couple? They do not seem fit, but their marriage is very happy. What are the real reasons why people choose to love one another? What mysterious power brings us into the arms of one person, and what mysterious power leaves us out of the eyes of others who fit in with all aspects of ours? John Hopkins John Manny, a professor of clinical psychology at the University, believes that everyone has a “love map” in their hearts - a set of messages in our brains that demonstrate our likes and dislikes. It not only shows the color, sound, smell and body of our favorite hair and eyes, but also the kind of personality that appeals to us, be it passionate or hardworking