有许多家庭,由于各种各样的原因,父母不得不将孩子交给老人抚养。这是极不明智的做法,也会给孩子的教养带来许多问题。一、大部分老人观念传统,只想把孙辈塑造成安静少动、言听计从的“乖孩子”。这种低期望值,会使孩子缺乏竞争意识和拼搏精神,同时,求知欲、好奇心也会泯灭。这样的孩子将来大多缺乏独立性、竞争性和创造性。 There are many families whose parents have to raise their children to the elderly for a variety of reasons. This is a very unwise method and will bring many problems to children’s education. First, most of the traditional concept of the elderly, just want to make the grandchildren quiet and sedentary, implicit in the “good boy.” This low expectations will make children lack of awareness of competition and fighting spirit, at the same time, curiosity, curiosity will vanished. Most children in the future lack of independence, competitiveness and creativity.