很多时候,急、快往往被看作奋发的象征,而缓、慢则满含了慵懒的意味。但在实际生活中却不尽然是这样,常言道心急吃不了热豆腐,甚至有的时候急躁反而有可能背离我们的初衷。有这么一则故事:顺治七年冬,书生周容前往镇海县城,小书童背着一大摞捆扎好的书跟随其后。眼看太阳就要落山,周容问一摆渡人:“待我们赶到县城,城门还开着吗?”摆渡人仔细打量了小书童一番,回答说:“若是慢慢走,城门还会开着,若是惶急赶 In many cases, anxiety and quickness are often seen as symbols of courage, while slowness and slowness are full of laziness. However, this is not always the case in real life. As the saying goes, people can not avail themselves of hot tofu, and sometimes impatience may actually deviate from our original intention. There is such a story: Junji seven years winter, scholar Zhou Rong went to Zhenhai County, a small book carrying a bunch of books followed by a good bundle. See the sun is going downhill, Zhou Rong asked a ferryman: ”When we arrived at the county seat, the city gate is still open?“ ”Ferry people looked at a small book about some, replied:" If you walk slowly, Will open, if anxious rush