即使已经发展到了今天,中国女人依然没有摆脱张爱玲那个时代的习惯——女人一辈子,想的是男人,恋的是男人,怨的是男人。但批判或研究男人,就可以解决女性自身存在的问题吗?不,男人有男人需要解决的问题,女人也有女人需要面对的困境。在情感问题上,男女相互作用,波此成就,好与坏,常常都是两个人的缔造。所以,我们说了太多男人了,我们应该停下来,谈谈自己,谈谈自己应该 Even though it has developed to today, Chinese women still have not got rid of the habits of Zhang Ailing at that time - women all their lives, think of men, love of men and blame of men. But can criticizing or researching men solve the problem of women themselves? No, men have problems that men need to solve, and women and women need to face difficulties. On the issue of emotions, men and women interact with each other, making waves of success, good or bad, often creating two people. So we said too many men, and we should stop, talk to ourselves, talk about what we should