国学大师张中行在《婚姻》一文中说:“世间的一切事物,都可以分等级,婚姻也是这样。以当事者满意的程度为标准,我多年阅世加内省,认为可以分为四个等级:可意,可过,可忍,不可忍。”什么叫婚姻?有人说,婚姻是美梦的开始,也是爱情的归宿;有人说,婚姻是一本书,第一章写的是诗篇,其余则全是平淡的散文;有人说,婚姻是一条绳索,套上了脖子,就再不容易打开;有人说,婚姻是一个金色的鸟笼,在外面 Zhang Zhongxing, a master of Chinese learning, said in his article “Marriage,” that “everything in the world can be classified and the same is true for marriage.” Based on the degree of satisfaction of the parties concerned, It is said that marriage is the beginning of a dream, but also the end of love; some people say that marriage is a book, the first chapter is written in the Psalms, the rest of the rest Some people say that marriage is a rope, put on the neck, it is not easy to open; some people say that marriage is a golden bird cage outside