一个星期日,我在心理咨询门诊值班,一位姑娘打来了电话,她说:“我是一个23岁的女孩,最近碰到一个特别使我苦恼的感情问题。我与一位35岁的男子已经好了两年,他已成家并有了孩子。他和他妻子长期感情不和,但他又不敢和她离婚,一是因为他很怕她,二是怕别人说闲话,怕压力。他跟我说两年后等机会再说。由于我把感情全寄托于他的身上,所以我现在干什么都觉得没有意思,不想工作,可我又不可能与他分手。我痛苦极了,不知怎么办才好?想听听您的 One Sunday, I was on call at a counseling clinic and a girl called and said: ”I was a 23-year-old girl who recently came across with an emotional problem that particularly distressed me. I was with a 35-year-old He has been married and has a child for a long time. He and his wife have long been in a bad mood but he did not dare divorce her either because he was scared of her or because he was afraid of gossip and fear of pressure. He told me two years later, the chance to say again, because I put my feelings on him, so I do not feel what I am doing now, I do not want to work, but I can not break up with him. I am extremely painful, I do not know why. Do you want to listen to you?