教育是一项复杂的系统工程,它需要多种手段、方法的综合运作。在对孩子施教的过程中,光有批评或赞美都是不够的,都是不完整的。既需要有充满着爱的赞美声,也需要有充满着爱的批评声。惟其如此,才会使孩子的心智得以健康发展,才会使孩子成长的“小船不让任何一股风掀翻”。纵观巴德·舒尔伯格的成功之路,正是母亲的爱给他提供了“灵感和创作的源泉”,而父亲“警告的力量”又使得他不断在 Education is a complex system engineering that requires the comprehensive operation of various means and methods. In the process of teaching children, it is not enough to criticize or praise lightly. They are incomplete. There is a need for a full of love and a critique of love. Only in this way can the child’s mind develop healthily, and only then can the child’s “small boat not overturn any wind”. Looking at Bud Schulberg’s road to success, it is the mother’s love that has provided him with a “source of inspiration and creation”, and his father’s “power of warning” has made him constantly