１、工作或学习之余，你和周围的人聚在一起聊天，你希望： Ａ、自己能成为这群人的中心人物。 Ｂ、只做听众就行： Ｃ、参与其中，但不做“出头鸟”。 ２、你在社交活动中遇见两个人，一个比较斯文，一个比较鲁莽，你和他们交往的结果会是： Ａ、和其中一个较亲密，难于接受另 1, work or study, you and people around gather together to chat, you want: A, I can become the center of these people. B, only the audience on the line: C, to participate in, but not to be a “bird of prey.” 2, you meet two people in social activities, a more Sven, a more reckless, the result of your interaction with them will be: A, and one of the more intimate, difficult to accept another