和谐的环境、宽松的生活氛围是促成一个人事业成功的基本因素。大凡有作为有气度的聪明人都是在自己现实的环境里去努力创造和谐的气氛,使条件好起来,使自己的心情愉快起来。但在现实生活中,往往有一些人,由于自己的做法不妥而破坏了和谐的环境。他们走到任何地方都不适合,都很难与人共处,都要生些是非出来,这种人最大的毛病就是这也看不惯,那也看不惯,什么也看不惯。他们都是自己先搬起是非,或是对小事过分计较,对利益寸步不让,又不能承受外部的打击。他们总是不能“忽视”身边的那些鸡毛蒜皮小事,诸如别人占了便宜,他要记下;别人有了过失,他要去谴责;别人的隐私他也不想放过地去宣扬,一天到晚所记住的都是周围人的不好、不是,这些做法在他心理上必然要失去和谐的因素。这 A harmonious environment, relaxed atmosphere of life is to promote a successful career of the basic factors. In general, wise men who are as handsome as men are striving to create a harmonious atmosphere in their own realities so as to make the conditions better and make their feelings happy. However, in real life, there are often some people who, due to their improper practices, have destroyed the harmonious environment. They go anywhere is not suitable, are difficult to coexist with others, must give birth to something nonsense, such a person’s biggest problem is that this can not understand, it can not understand, can not understand what. They both move themselves right from wrong to wrong, or they make too little consideration to small things, and they can not tolerate interests and can not withstand external strikes. They always can not “neglect ” around those trivial matters, such as others accounted for the cheap, he should write down; others have a mistake, he wanted to condemn; other people’s privacy he did not want to let go to publicize, one day to It is not good for the people around you to remember it late. No, these methods are psychologically bound to lose their harmony. This