教育感悟941:自由与规则结合是最好的教育。研究发现,民主权威型家庭的孩子成才率最高,其根本特点就是尊重孩子的主动性,培养孩子的自控力。教育专家蒋佩蓉以开车为例对此讲得最为准确形象:主动性是油门踏板,自我控制力是刹车脚踏板。缺任何一个踏板就不能开车,如果开了车会有生命危险。教育感悟942:高水平的父母教育孩子的特点是收放自如。之所以自如是因为尊重成长的规律,要点突出点到为止。何为要点?如心理学家陈会昌教授20年研究之心 Educational perception 941: The combination of freedom and rules is the best education. The study found that the most successful talented children in the family with democratic authority are their respect for children’s initiative and their self-control. Education expert Jiang Pei-rong to drive as an example to say the most accurate image: the initiative is the accelerator pedal, self-control brake pedal. You can not drive without any pedal, and if you drive a car there will be life-threatening. Educational perception 942: A high level of parental education Children are characterized by ease. The reason why freedom is due to respect the law of growth, highlights the point until now. What is the point? As psychologist Professor Chen Huichang 20 years of research