欲望是生命成长的一种内驱力,没有欲望的推动孩子难以长大。我也常常自相矛盾,一边强调对孩子采取放手教育,一边又不自觉地喜欢把孩子紧紧地攥在手心。 1996年暑假,报社组织子女夏令营。小女儿要去,丈夫也支持她。可我反对。反对的理由是她还小,独自跟大队伍到外地去,我不放心。但我一直没公开自己的态度。只是跟丈夫反复强调我的观点。 Desire is a driving force of life growth, there is no desire to promote children grow up hard. I am also often contradictory, while emphasizing the education of children to let go, while unconsciously like to hold the child tightly in the palm of your hand. In the summer of 1996, the newspaper organized a summer camp for children. The little daughter is going, her husband supports her. But I object. The reason for objection is that she was still young and went to the field alone with the big team. I was not assured. But I have not disclosed my attitude. Just repeatedly emphasized my point with her husband.