三毛曾经说过:人活在世界上,最重要的是要有爱人的能力,而不是被爱。我们不懂得爱人又如何能被人所爱?“爱”人的能力包含两层含义,其一是具有给予和奉献的能力,具有爱的素质,爱的质量,爱的艺术,这是就“爱”本身所具备的资源而言;第二层含义是你给予的爱要能够让对方感受到,“爱”是用“心”来感受的,你的行为是不是爱,并非由自己而是由对方来决定,对方感受不到的就不是爱。那什么是“爱”呢?爱是一种生 San Mao once said: People living in the world, the most important thing is to have the ability of a loved one, not be loved. We do not know how lovers can be loved? “Love ” people’s ability to contain two meanings, one is the ability to give and dedication, with the quality of love, the quality of love, the art of love, this is The second layer of meaning is that the love you give can make each other feel it. “Love ” is to use “heart ” to feel, your behavior is Not love, not by yourself but by the other to decide, the other can not feel love is not. So what is “love”? Love is a kind of life