家长:柴大姐,有件事想请您帮我拿主意。我和丈夫经自由恋爱结婚,婚后我们感情很好,可自从有了儿子牛牛,我俩却经常吵架。他嫌我太惯孩子,我嫌他管孩子太粗暴;他嫌我一心都扑在孩子身上,对他关心得太少;我嫌他太懒,好多事也不肯帮我一把……就这样,我们的吵闹逐步升级。我想,我们的缘分已经 Parents: Sister Chai, one thing you want to help me get your idea. My husband and I were married by free love. After the marriage, we had a good relationship. But we had quarrels since we had sons and daughters. He suspected I was too used to children, I suspect he was too rude to the children; he was too fond of my heart, and I was too concerned about him too much; I was too lazy, so many things refused to help me ... In this way, our noises gradually escalate. I think, our fate is already