吴宓先生与钱书杨绛钱书在《论交友》一文中曾说过：他在大学时代，五位最敬爱的老师都是以哲人、导师而更做朋友的。吴宓先生就是其中一位。我常想，假如他有缘选修陈寅恪先生的课，他的哲人、导师而兼做朋友的老师准会增添一人。我考入清华研究生院在清华当研究生的... In the article “On Dating”, Mr. Wu Yong and Qian Qian Shuang Yang Qian Qian Yu said: In his college days, all five of his most beloved teachers were more philosophers and mentors. Mr. Wu Mi is one of them. I often think that if he had a chance to choose Mr. Chen Yinke’s class, his philosopher, mentor and friend, who is a friend, would expect to add one more person. I was admitted to Tsinghua University Graduate School of graduate students ...