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有人说婆媳是天生的“敌人”。原本陌路的婆婆与儿媳因为爱同一个男人而生活在同一个屋檐下,可想而知,彼此之间出现矛盾实属正常。当然,生活中也有很多婆媳相处融洽和睦的家庭,但面对更多家长里短般的摩擦与冲突,我们需要一些行为原则或者相处之道来化解婆媳矛盾。其中,很重要的一个原则是“把婆婆当亲妈一样孝敬,但不能像亲妈一样要求”。这一原则可以帮儿媳对自己在婆家的行为立场进行比较恰当的定位,以化解婆媳之间很多不必要的误会。
Some people say that law-in-law is born “enemy ”. The original stranger’s mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because of love with a man living under the same roof, one can imagine, the contradiction between each other is normal. Of course, there are many families who live in harmony with their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. However, in the face of more short-run friction and conflict among parents, we need some principles of behavior or ways to get along with each other. Among them, a very important principle is “the mother-in-law as honor, but not like the mother asked ”. This principle can help the daughter-in-law to conduct a more appropriate positioning of her own behavior in her husband’s home in order to resolve many unnecessary misunderstandings between her-in-law and in-law.