我家孩子今年上高二了,学习成绩在班上中等偏上,性格比较阳光开朗。几次开家长会老师都跟我提过这个问题,说孩子现在有早恋的迹象,希望做家长的能够及时沟通、疏导。毕竟他现在已经高二了,学习压力和任务都很大,不想孩子因为恋爱问题而耽误学习,也不想因为学习而让孩子丢失掉自己的快乐,真不知道现在该怎么办?“理解帮助青春期早恋堵不如疏。早恋是青少年在青春期正常的心理和生理的反映,只要加以正确的引导,让孩子能够充分地理解,一定会收到很好的效果。不少家长担心孩子们还小,说不定过早的引导会有”误导“的副作用,让还没有成熟的花过早地开放。 My child on the sophomore year, the academic performance in the class on the upper middle, more cheerful personality. Several times to open the parents will talk to me about this issue, said the child now has signs of puppy love, hoping to be parents to communicate and divert timely. After all, he is now sophomore, and learning pressure and tasks are great, do not want children to learn because of love problems and delayed learning, but also because of learning and let the children lose their happiness, I really do not know what to do now? ”To help adolescence Puppy love is better than purse. Puppy love is the normal psychology and physiology of adolescence in adolescence, as long as the correct guidance, so that children can fully understand, will receive very good results.Many parents worry that children are still small, say Uncertain early guidance will have “misleading” side effects, so that not yet mature flowers open too early.