黄德海这人,有迂和执的一面。他是我最早带的研究生,毕业许多年了,还把我当老师,与现在教育形式的师生关系不太符合。很多人做得比他好,毕业了,师生关系就结束了,本该如此。这话听着像发牢骚,还真不是,因为我做老师的时候给学生的印象并不亲切,不会打成一片,坐在一起说话常出现间隙过长的沉默,令学生颇感压力和不自在;学业结束,各奔前程,也各有其难要应付,少些牵扯,相忘江湖,用力过好自己的人生,才是大义。 Huang Dehai this man, there are detached and executive side. He was my earliest graduate student, graduated for many years, but also to me as a teacher, and now the form of education teachers and students do not fit. Many people do better than him, graduated, teacher-student relationship is over, so it should be. When I was a teacher, I was not impressed with the students. I did not get dressed together. When I sat together, I often felt silent with long gaps, which made my students feel quite stressed and uncomfortable ; Study is over, go their own ways, but also have their own difficulties to cope with, less involved, forgetting rivers and lakes, force their own life, is righteous.