八十多年前,美国加利福尼亚州的沃尔逊小镇、涌来了一群饥饿的难民。当镇长杰克逊先生发送食品时,许多难民迅速拿到分到的食物吞嚼起来,这其中,有一个年轻人例外,他对镇长说:“镇长,你送给我这么多好吃的。我能为你干些什么吗?”杰克逊笑了:“我给你们食物,并不是寻求什么回报,我只不过给你们提供一些帮助而已、并不需要你们干什么。”那位年轻人听了,并没有领情,“如果没有活儿给我干的话,我不会接受你的食物,真的,我总得为你干点什么呀!”杰克逊觉得这位年轻人很不一样。可是,又没有什么供他干,杰克逊只好蹲下来,让年轻人给他捶背。后来,年轻人被留了下来,杰克逊镇长把女儿也嫁给了他。20年后,这位年轻人成了世界石油大王,他的名字叫哈默。哈默先生的成功,固然有许多因素,但他那种拒绝不劳而获的做法,却为他赢得了宝贵的自尊。看来构筑成功的大厦,除了自信的水泥,自强的红砖之外,还离不开那种名叫自尊的钢筋! 人生就是一次漫长的旅行,当命运的女神向你走来之时,你如果说我总得为你干点什么吧!然后接过她手中的包裹,谁又能保证你不会受到格外的垂青?因为,你的获得让你拥有自尊。而自尊却是你成就事业的基石。当你把“我总得为你干点什么”付诸行动的时候,这就注定了在生活中,你的真诚不会下岗,你的心灵不会失业,因为,你拥有宝贵的自尊。 (王威杰摘自《家家乐》) More than 80 years ago, a group of hungry refugees came in the small town of Waltham, California. When the mayor, Mr. Jackson, sent food, many refugees quickly swallowed the food they had distributed, with the exception of a young man who told the mayor: “The mayor, you gave me so much delicious What can I do for you? ”Jackson laughed:“ I give you food, not seeking any return, I just give you some help, do not need you to do. ”The young man heard And did not appreciate it. “I would not accept your food if nothing was done for me. Really, I have to do something for you!” Jackson thought the young man was very different. However, there is nothing for him to do, Jackson had to squat down, let the young man to beat him back. Later, the young man was left behind and the mayor Jackson married his daughter. Twenty years later, the young man became the world’s oil king, his name is Hammer. Although there are many factors in Mr. Hammer’s success, his refusal to work hard earned him precious pride. It seems to build a successful building, in addition to self-confidence of cement, strong red brick, but also inseparable from the kind of called self-esteem reinforced life is a long journey, when the goddess of destiny came to you, you If I had to do something for you! And then took the package in her hand, who can guarantee that you will not be particularly favored? Because, you get you to have self-esteem. Self-esteem is the cornerstone of your career. When you put “I always have to do something for you” when the action, this is doomed in life, your sincerity will not be laid off, your heart will not be unemployed, because you have a precious self-esteem. (Wang Wei Jie excerpt from “Family Fun”)