有个朋友有一次对我说:“王尔德说过,少说话是女人的美。”他是在趁我滔滔不绝大放厥词的空隙对我说的。我想,他是怜我话多,不美,想挽救我。王尔德(是不是王尔德说的?)这句话,我深以为是,但对我作用稀薄,我依然话多,而且我认为,话多话少是天性,改不了的。但是,这句话让我想起另外一个问题,男人话多又该如何看待呢? One of my friends once said to me: “Wilde said less talking is the beauty of a woman.” "He was talking to me while I kept talking nonsense. I think he is pity me, not beautiful, want to save me. Wilde (is not Wilde said?) I am deeply convinced of these words, but I am still weak in my role, and I still think that words are less natural and can not be changed. However, this sentence reminds me of another question, how should men talk about it?