夫妻之间产生的家庭暴力是一种不对称的暴力行为。其可分成硬暴力和软暴力两种不同形式。而后者的行为同样令人发指,它所带给夫妻双方的伤害更为隐密和持久。如果说硬暴力是一个和法律密切相关的问题,那么软暴力似乎只是一个和婚姻伦理相关的问题。 Domestic violence between husband and wife is an asymmetrical act of violence. It can be divided into two different forms, hard violence and soft violence. The latter’s behavior is equally outrageous, and the harm it inflicts on both husband and wife is more intimate and lasting. If hard violence is a matter that is closely linked with the law, then soft violence seems to be a matter of marital ethics.