人际交往无非两种状态：一是日光关系，坦诚、热烈、光明磊落；另一种则是月光关系，朦胧、淡远、不可尽视。 　　日光关系常常被人认为是美德，殊不知，这常常也是一个灾难，或者说是灾难的先兆。正如在日光之下，所有物体都拖着一条阴影样的尾巴，坦诚热烈常常也要付出代价。 Interpersonal contact is nothing more than two states: First, the relationship between the sun, frank, warm, uplifting; the other is the moonlight relationship, dim, distant, can not be overlooked. Sunlight relations are often regarded as virtues, and as everyone knows, it is often a catastrophe, or a harbinger of disasters. Just as under the sun all objects dragged a shadow-like tail, frankness and warmth often came at a price.