终有一天你不得不承认,你烦的那些人,身上都有你的影子。在那些影子部分,你和他是连体的。当然不愿承认,可一次又一次无情的冲击,你论证、反驳、逃避……都无济于事。你不忍太过贬低自己,就不得不对他们好一点。时日久了,“不得不”的这股子不情愿,也就漫漶了,转变为本能的自觉。 One day you have to admit that those who are tired of you have your shadow on you. In those shadow parts, you are one with him. Of course, we are reluctant to admit that we can relentlessly attack again and again. Your arguments, refutations and evasions will not help. You can not bear to belittle yourself, they have to be better to them. The time is long, “had ” this share reluctantly, also diffuse, into a conscious instinct.