“磨砺教育” 辽宁社会科学院心理研究所主任张思宁现实生活中,孩子的独立意识、动手能力和生存技能明显下降,其中产生的原因很多,但家庭因素占有极大比例。由于独生子女数量的增多,家庭人员呈4:2:1,即六个成人照顾一个孩子,势必造成溺爱、娇宠,本来孩子应完成的事,却被家长剥夺了,致使孩子依赖感增强,自理能力差。现在我们提倡磨砺教育,2000多年前,孟子就曾讲过“天将降大任于斯人也,必将苦其心智,劳其筋骨,饿其体肤, ”Motting education “ Zhang Sining, director of the Institute of Psychology, Liaoning Academy of Social Sciences, in children’s independent consciousness, hands-on ability and survival skills, in real life, there are many reasons, but the family factor occupies a large proportion. Due to the increase in the number of only children, family members are 4:2:1, that is, six adults take care of one child, which is bound to cause affection and petting. The things that children should have done have been taken away by parents, resulting in increased dependence on children and self-care. poor ability. Now we advocate honing education. More than 2,000 years ago, Mencius once said that ”If the heavens will descend upon the Sri Lankans, they will suffer from their mentality, labor, and hunger.