谁都知道“赞美”是世界上最动听的语言，它能给人们的心灵带来愉悦。 可是，随着都市生活向多元化、前卫化挺进，人们的生存空间却变得越来越封闭、自我。在这样的社会环境下，赞美不再是值得玩味的交际方式，它过多地沾染上了功利的味道。男人对女人赞美、下属对上司赞美、朋 Everyone knows that “praise” is the world’s most beautiful language, it can bring happiness to people’s souls. However, as urban life advances towards diversification and advancement, people’s living space has become more and more closed and self-reliant. In such a social environment, praise is no longer a ploy-worthy means of communication, but it is too much of a utilitarian taste. Men praise women, subordinates praise their superiors, friends