最近因为一本书《点点梅花为我愁》,让人们再次开始回忆起林语堂、梁启超等人的旧事,他们的古典婚姻哲学,放在现在来看,依旧是妙人妙语的存在。比如林语堂搞定吵架的妙招:“怎样做个好丈夫?就是太太在喜欢的时候,你跟着她喜欢,可是太太生气的时候,你不要跟她生气。”还有他说婚姻,“婚姻就像穿鞋,穿的日子久了, Recently, because of a book ”Little Plum Blossom Worried about Me,“ people started to recall the old stories of Lin Yutang and Liang Qichao et al. Again, their classical philosophy of marriage, for now, is still the existence of wonderful characters. Lin Lin-tang, for example, got the quarrel coup: ”How to be a good husband? Is the wife in love, you follow her like, but the wife angry, you do not want to be angry with her.“ ”And he said marriage, " Marriage Like wearing shoes, wearing a long time,