表哥打来电话,说明天就完工了,你们是不是抽空回来看看?告诉母亲,她松了一口气说那就下周吧,一桩大事了却了也就罢了。母亲说的大事,是在家乡给她与父亲砌墓葬的事。多年以前,父母就提过这个问题,然而几次被我拦下。我以为,人好好的,干嘛提这些不吉利的事?人还好好地活着,怎么就要给自己掘墓葬?在我看来,这些都不应该是当事人知道和提及的事。然而,父母一年年唠叨,说凤英姨姨家的墓葬早砌好了,说会明舅舅的也准备齐了,说邻里邻居都差不多把这事解决了,咱 Cousin called to explain the day is completed, are you taking the time to come back and tell? Tell the mother, she relieved that it next week, a major event, but nothing more. Mother said the event, in her hometown to her and her father puzzle burial things. Many years ago, parents raised the issue, but I was stopped several times. I think, people are good, why mention these unlucky things? People are still alive, how to dig their own graves? In my opinion, these should not be the parties know and mentioned. However, the parents year after year, nagging, said Auntie Auntie Auntie’s early early tombs, and said uncle will be ready neat, and neighborhood neighbors are about to solve this matter, we