生活中常常有这样的事情:小孩犯了过错往往招致父母的过分责罚——从责骂直到体罚。用意自然是为了使孩子变好。但效果却微乎其微、甚至变得更糟。这种事与愿违的矛盾,使缺乏经验的父母困惑起来:我该怎么办呢?其实,再好的小孩在日常生活中也难免做错事,诸如不听话、不爱做力所能及的事、不讲卫生、骂人、 Often in life there is such a thing: a child who has made mistakes often leads to excessive punishment from his parents - from scolding until corporal punishment. The intention is to make children better. But the effect is minimal or even worse. Such contradictory and contrary contradictions puzzled inexperienced parents: What should I do? In fact, even the best children in their daily lives will inevitably make mistakes, such as disobedience, do not love what they can do, do not talk about hygiene ,curse,