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当家长发现自己的孩子是个弱智儿以后,往往就什么期望也没有了。他们说:“这么一个孩子,还能指望他长大干什么呢?”在这种情况下,家庭中容易出现父母观念的不一致或干脆把孩子交给老人抚养。而老人往往对孩子是溺爱多于理智,以致孩子生活在保护伞下,成长在保温箱中,什么也不会。说实在的,孩子是父母的结晶,父母有责任抚养、教育他,即使这个孩子智力有缺陷,他也是个人啊!父母不仅要一起担负教育孩子的责任,家中其他成员也应该积极配合。有些父母觉得孩子不用大人帮他吃饭,不用帮他穿衣,就不错了,什么都不让他学。的确,对这样的孩子是不能指望他做什么惊天动地的大事,但
When parents find their children are mentally handicapped children, often expect nothing. They said: “Such a child, but also expect him to grow up?” In this case, the family is prone to inconsistencies in the concept of parents or simply give the child raised by the elderly. Elderly people often spoil their children more than their minds so that their children live under the umbrella and grow in the incubator, and nothing will happen. To be honest, the child is the crystallization of parents, parents have the responsibility to raise and educate him, even if the child has mental retardation, he is also an individual! Parents should not only bear the responsibility of educating their children, other members of the family should also actively cooperate. Some parents feel that children do not have to help him eat an adult, do not help him dressing, it is not bad, do not let him learn anything. Indeed, for such children can not expect him to do anything earth-shattering event, however