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由于孩子好奇心强、活泼好动,往往引起意想不到的恶作剧和事故。有时,他们会弄坏十分贵重的东西。出现这些情况,做家长的当然要加隧训斥。但有的家长训斥孩子不得法,往往使孩子产生抗拒心理,从而使训斥运不到应有效果。 针对上述情况,日本著名心理学家松达哉先生提出10条训斥孩子的最佳方案1为孩子不听话而头疼的家长不妨一读: 一、当孩子的某些行为可能造成重大危险时,如孩子在公路和水沟边玩耍、玩火或玩耍利器时,要毫不客气地狠狠加以训斥。 二、当场训斥。对于幼小的孩子,如果不当场加以训斥,就不会有效果。因为早上发生的事情等到晚上再去训斥,孩子早就忘在脑后了。
Because children are curious and lively, they often cause unexpected mischief and accidents. Sometimes, they spoil something of great luxury. In these circumstances, the parents who are parents should of course be subject to tunnel exclusion. However, some parents scold children not to law, often make the child resistant to psychology, so that reprimand should not be effective. In view of the above situation, the famous Japanese psychologist, Mr. Song Daizai made 10 best programs to reprimand children 1 headaches for children disobedient parents may wish to read: First, when some of the behavior of the child may cause serious danger, such as When children are playing on the roads and ditches, playing with fire or playing sharp weaponry, they should be morally reprimanded. Second, reprimanded on the spot. For young children, if not be scolded on the spot, there will be no effect. Because of what happened in the morning and wait until night to reprimand, the child has long been forgotten.