“比”能使孩子进步向上,也可能会让孩子滋生一些不良的行为和习惯,关键是要教会孩子懂得应该比什么,不应该比什么我们要着眼于孩子的长远发展目标,不只让他们比一比谁爱动脑筋、爱学习,还要比一比谁有爱心、有礼貌,懂得关心、尊敬别人;谁爱劳动、讲卫生、自己的事情自己做;谁不怕困难,遇到事会想办法等等。但是,由于社会环境的影响,有些家长却引导孩子比吃、比穿、比享受。你家的孩子有价格昂贵的童装,我家的孩子也能穿上;你的玩具好玩又高级,我家也买得起。这些都不利于孩子的健康成长。家长应针对孩子存在的不足为孩子确定比较适当的“比”的对象,并告诉孩子达到目的的途径是 “Than ” can make children progress, may also give birth to some of the bad behavior and habits of children, the key is to teach children to know what should be more than what we should focus on children’s long-term development goals, not only Who cares more than one, love learning, but also than who cares, polite, know how to care, respect others; who love labor, health, their own business to do their own things; who are not afraid of difficulties encountered Will think of ways and so on. However, due to the social environment, some parents guide their children to eat more than to wear and enjoy. Your children have expensive children’s wear, my family’s children can wear; your toys fun and advanced, my family can afford it. These are not conducive to the healthy growth of children. Parents should target their children to determine the more appropriate “than ” object, and tell the child to achieve the goal of the way