谈心是经常性思想工作的重要方法。心理学家弗洛伊德曾说:“没有人可以隐藏秘密,假如他的嘴巴不说话,则他会用指尖说话。”有研究资料表明,在信息的传达中,说一句话,词语只表达了7%的内容,声音占38%,余下55%则来自说话者的姿态、表情和动作这些肢体语言。由此可见,恰当地应用非语言交流手段将会使谈心活动获得事半功倍的效果。——掌握恰当的距离。20世纪50 Talking is an important method of regular ideological work. Psychologist Freud once said: “Nobody can hide the secret, if his mouth does not speak, then he will speak with your fingertips.” Some research shows that in the communication of information, to say a word, The words expressed only 7% of the content, accounting for 38% of the sound, while the remaining 55% came from the body language of the speaker’s gestures, expressions and movements. This shows that proper application of non-verbal means of communication will make the heart-talking activity get a multiplier effect. - Master the right distance. 20th Century 50