很抱歉由我来告诉你这一点,我知道你觉得自己并不是这样,但说真的,你确实话太多。做个简单的测试:下次跟别人长谈之后,算一下你说话所占的百分比,不要自欺欺人。不,你已经算少了。我怎么会知道?因为说比听更好玩。说话像是在喝一杯上好的葡萄酒,而听人说话像是在做蹲起。在你所计算百分比的基础上再加20%吧。 I’m sorry to let you know this, I know you do not think you’re the same, but honestly, you really talk too much. Be a simple test: After you talk to someone for the next time, count the percentage of what you say and do not fool yourself. No, you’ve got less. How can I know? Because it’s more fun than listening. Speaking like drinking a glass of good wine, and listening to people like doing squatting. Add 20% to your calculated percentage.