人生“三戒之”孔子提出,人生“少之时,血气未定,戒之在色;及其壮也,血气方刚,戒之在斗;及其老也,血气既衰,戒之在得。”把人生的自然性与社会性结合起来,极富哲理。人生“三要素”著名女作家冰心说:“一个人应当像朵花,不论男人或女人,花有色、香、味,人有才、情、趣,三者不可 Confucius, the life of the “Three Precepts,” proposed in his life “less time, the blood is not determined, the ring in the color; and its strong, blood gas just, quit in the bucket; and its old, blood gas both decline, quit right. ”The natural and social life together, very philosophical. Bing Xin, a well-known female writer in life, said: "A person should be like a flower, whether a man or a woman, with flowers, scents and flavors.