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在追求理想的路上,压力是孩子无法避免的问题。摒弃空洞的说教,让孩子从内心里把压力转化成动力,理解付出与收获之间的正比例关系,用努力带来的成就感、荣誉感、幸福感构建起正面的情绪。孩子期末考试成绩出来了,语文不出预料地保持在100至110分之间。无论别人分高分低,他都保持在这个范围内。这一次在别人分数普遍都低的情况下,他的语文成绩难得地成了第一名。我问他语文老师是如何点评的,他回答说语文老师说他没有考好,而班里某某才考了一百分,老师就表扬他考得好。我解释说:“因为你们在老师心目当中的期望值
In the pursuit of the ideal way, the pressure is the child can not avoid the problem. Abandon empty preaching, so that children from the inner pressure into motivation, pay and gain understanding of the direct proportion between the sense of accomplishment, honor and happiness brought by efforts to build positive emotions. The final exam results of the child came out, the language unpredictably maintained at between 100 to 110 points. No matter what other people score low, he remained within this range. This time, his grades in other languages made him a rare first place when scores of other people were generally low. I asked him how the language teacher commented. He replied that the language teacher said he did not take the test, and the class had a test of a hundred percent. The teacher praised him for his test well. I explained: ”Because of your expectations in the minds of teachers