那是1954年,我刚从康奈尔大学毕业,正要与马蒂·金斯伯格结婚。在与我约会的男友中他是唯一一个在乎我的头脑的小伙子。我和马蒂是1951年我17岁时在康奈尔大学一次别人安排的约会中认识的,那年他18岁,在文理学院,比我高一级。他是我大学时代的好朋友,高年级休假时,我经常在纽约罗克维尔中心他父母家吃饭。我母亲已于我高中毕业前夕去世,所以马蒂的母亲就如同我的母亲。每当需要时,他父母总是及时出 That was 1954, I just graduated from Cornell University, is about to marry Marty Ginsberg. Among the boyfriends dating me, he was the only one who cares about my mind. Myself and Marty met in 1951 when I was 17 at a personal appointment at Cornell University when I was 18 and at the Liberal Arts College was one level above me. He was a good friend of my college days, and when I was in high school, I often ate at his parents’ home in Rockville, New York. My mother had died on the eve of my high school graduation, so Marty’s mother is like my mother. His parents always come out in time whenever they need it