放弃是一项重要的生活技能,而非像文化传统灌输的那样是令人羞愧的无奈之举。“放弃”开启了另外一个视角,而这个视角是我们所受的教育和我们给孩子的教育中所缺失的。因为人类大脑的天平无意识地倒向了“坚持”的一侧。两个放弃博士学位的人那时艾伦已年近30岁,已结婚并当上了父亲,正在研究生院攻读文学博士学位。他已经通过了口试,正在撰写学位论文,梦想中的博士帽已经触手可及了,大学教授的职位也在向他招手。虽然他喜欢教书,但他意识到 Abandonment is an important life skill, not ashamed of frustration as the cultural tradition instills. “Abandon ” opens up another perspective, which is missing from the education we receive and the education we give to our children. Because the balance of the human brain unconsciously fell to the “insisted” side. At the time Allan was almost 30 years old, married and father, and was studying for a doctoral degree in a graduate school. He has passed an oral examination, is writing a dissertation, his dream Dr. Hat is within reach, university professors are also waving his job. Although he likes to teach, he realizes