养侬长大又陪妆,养女由来也自伤。最是哭声听不得,一声宝宝一声娘。这是土家词人彭勇行用竹枝体状写土家人唱哭嫁歌的情景,“最是哭声听不得,一声宝宝一声娘”道出了听哭嫁歌的感受。哭嫁,这种土家族独特的仪式,饱含着出阁在即的姑娘对父母亲友的感恩和依依不舍的情怀。 Yang Lennon grew up to accompany makeup, raised her own daughter also hurt. Most can not hear cries, a baby soon as a mother. This is the poet Peng Yong line with bamboo branches to write soil family singing crying wedding scene, “the most crying can not hear, a baby soon as Niang ” out of hearing the wedding song feeling. Crying marriage, this unique Tujia ritual, full of out of the Court of the girl’s gratitude and reluctance to parents and relatives.