日本幼儿教育专家森重敏曾对母亲的育儿态度与幼儿个性的形成的关系进行过许多研究,他把母亲的育儿态度分为四种类型: 第一,“细微的干预”型:指母亲总是啰啰唆唆地要求孩子的行为举止或者对孩子所做的事追根问底,即总是拘泥于孩子的细微之处。第二,“垂直的亲爱”型:指母亲对孩子温和慈祥,能耐心地听取孩子的欲望和要求。第三,“情动”型:指母亲的情绪态度表现强烈,比如经常打骂孩子或训斥孩子。第四,“水平的亲和”型:指母亲和孩子的地位平等,能和睦共处,做孩子的知心朋友,和孩子对话等。森重敏认为,上述四种育儿态度对幼儿个性的形 Many Japanese studies have examined the relationship between mother’s attitude towards childcare and the formation of childlike personality. He divided the mother’s attitude towards childcare into four types: first, the “subtle intervention” type refers to the fact that the mother always La La instigating children’s demeanor to behave or to do what children do, that is, always stick to the child’s nuances. Second, the “vertical dear” type: refers to the mother gentle and kind to their children, patiently listen to the child’s desires and demands. Third, the “emotional” type: refers to the strong emotional attitude of the mother, such as often scold children or scold children. Fourth, the “horizontal affinity” type refers to the equality of mother and child, co-existence in peace, being a close friend of children, talking to children and so on. Sen Chong-min that the above four kinds of child-rearing attitude on the shape of children’s personality